Thursday, 15 December 2011

Be A Gentleman

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A man can be as great as he wants to be.

Real men do cry and they do show emotion. 

Asking for directions is what real smart men do.

Courtesy is as much a mark of a gentleman as courage.

A man of quality is not threatened by a woman of equality.

 A real man accepts responsibility for his actions and his words. 

Any man can be a father, but it takes a real man to become a Dad.

The more you act like a lady, the more he'll act like a gentleman.

A gentlemen treats everyone with respect. He treats himself with respect.

Real men love and appreciate a woman who has a great career and life of her own.

A man that lowers his gaze when at the presence of woman, seems more handsome than the others.

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If a gentleman is subjected to a rude remark or rude behaviour, he does not offer rudeness in return.

A boy makes his girl jealous of other women. A gentleman makes other women jealous of his girl.

A true gentleman knows how to control his angers. He is aware of his weaknesses and works to improve them.

When a gentleman is confronted by foolishness, he does not attempt to refute it with reason. Instead, he keeps silent.

 As a gentleman, one makes an honest effort to find the good in others. He acts towards others with patience and understanding. 

A true gentleman can achieve moderation, avoiding the extremes in thinking and behaviour. His habits are done only in moderation.

The true gentleman has personal pride, he has humility. He does not seek to contradict people but to recognise them. He listens to other opinions and avoids talking about himself. When he wins, he does not boast. 

Good guys are humble guys. They don’t need to beat themselves in the chest to show they are better, stronger, smarter, more successful or more handsome than other men. The ego is the enemy of good guys and they usually have it under control.


  1. nicely done... bt hw do they control their egos?

  2. Assalamu Alaykum!

    Ow I like this post! Real gentlemen, where are they now? lol...Not judging =S
    I wish to marry a pious man. A fighter. This is what we need nowadays. Interesting post. Keep it up
    Take care

  3. hehehe..I can't add have said it all Asma ;)

  4. @quartertoinsane: Hmmm when it comes to heal ego in our self we must remind our self that we are all human so why we feel pride or superior when there is equality in us... :)
    Anyways anyone who want to treat ego he has to be human and must treat people with equal status, as he wants to be treated, become open minded, get control over feelings and emotions that make him feel more egoistic, and most importantly we need to quite down the negativity inside us. :)

  5. @Dana ML: Waleikum Assalam...
    Where there are ladies there must be gentlemen... :P
    Insha Allah you will have a righteous and brave man... :)
    Thank You for stopping by I am so happy to see you here, keep visiting...
    Stay Blessed

  6. @Sie: You don't have to say anything, as you already have one (Gentleman) :P
    Peace & Blessings...

  7. A real gentleman is not easy to find these days.
    a few more decades are needed to generate the creature.

  8. @-Fahad Naeem-: Is it funny? :/

  9. not so easy to be a gentleman...rather not that tough either if one honestly wishes to be.....:)

    Nice post...

  10. @Irfanuddin: Happy to see you here after a long time... :)
    You are right, if someone wishes to be a true man/woman then it's not impossible... :)

  11. inspiring. nothing is more true than your words. i couldn't agree more. thanks for sharing :) it enlighten me :)

    jazakillahukhairankatheera :)

  12. @Inspector Saahab: Welcome... :)
    Be Blessed Always...

  13. Wow, you have an awesome blog, mashaAllah!

  14. @appleblossoms14: Thank You... :)

  15. Every point here is true and wonderful.

    "Real men love and appreciate a woman who has a great career and life of her own."

    very nice,.