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Relationships Aren’t Easy

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Indeed relationships are not difficult and complicated but we people are complicated so make relationships complicated. We complicate everything, when in reality everything is so simple. Even though dealing relationships wisely is not easy at all. Individually we all have strengths and weaknesses in our self. Some people are easy going so getting along with them is easier but the others are trouble maker but naturally both kind of persons have heart, feelings, mind and soul.

You are Single Not Dead

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Being single does not mean that you are weak, it's mean you are strong enough to wait for what you really deserve. If you are happy and confident, you are more likely to attract the right person into your life in the first place. And most importantly when Allah (God) knows you’re ready for the responsibility of commitment, He will reveal the right person under the right circumstances. You are not going to displease Allah if you’re single (by Qadar).

Be A Gentleman

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A man can be as great as he wants to be.

Real men do cry and they do show emotion.

Asking for directions is what real smart men do.

Courtesy is as much a mark of a gentleman as courage.

Lower Your Gaze And Be Modest

People need to be reminded about the "Male Hijab".

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Allah (God) created us with desires and urges, He also revealed to us sufficient and complete guidance to properly channel these desires.

A Story Of A Muslim Brother and A Hospital Nurse

There was a companion of ours in Glasgow who became ill and was hospitalised. He was admitted for three days and on the fourth day the attendant nurse said, “Marry me”.

He [the brother in Glasgow] asked, “Why? I am a Muslim, you and I cannot become companions.”

She said, “I’ll become Muslim”.

“What’s the reason?” it was asked.

A Secret Fighting

Today; I am going to pull your attention towards a very sensitive topic. A secret struggle that takes place among those, who are habitual of it. It is a struggle against their own body, if a person will not fight against it, it will take complete hold on doer and make him/her slave of dirty and lustful desires. Mostly people even not realize what is it. It is a private behavior rarely shared or discussed in public. I have chosen to write about masturbation a topic which is commonly perceived as taboo because it is an unpleasant and unethical act. Masturbation is very evil indeed, it is impermissible (haraam) to masturbate.
It is very delicate topic need to be discussed under Islamic and ethical, healthy and positive point of view just for awareness and cure sake.

Guard Your Heart Girls

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Heart is so precious and fragile, and yet so complicated, that there are parts and feelings it holds that are specially reserved as a gift for married couples. This results in the need for us to be alert and guarding our hearts at all times; primarily, when it comes to relationships.

This is especially true for females, who tend to have a God-given desire to be loved, cherished, protected and understood by an earthly, godly man. This is not a bad thing at all, except for when we go seeking it from a bunch of different guys through flirting or relationships, instead of realizing that Allah (God) already fulfills this desire, and only our God-given future husband could help amplify it.