Till Death Do Us Part

Marriage is a permanent commitment between a man and a woman; a single piece of marriage paper unite them legally, socially, economically, and emotionally. It is a kind of commitment that tie a couple for the rest of their lives. Otherwise a lack of commitment to the marriage become the reason for separation/divorce. In fact when your futures are tied together, you become more committed to your marriage, give up your choices, and act carefully.

Undeniably, marriage is hard and life after marriage may not prove easygoing as we expect or wish; still you can earn the benefits of it by adjustment, compromise and sacrifice; indeed friendship, respect and understanding are the basics of marriage. For keeping your marriage healthy, happy and strong, you have to work on it everyday.

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Be A Hero And Stop Street Harassment

Stop Street Harassment!

Some guys act like complete animals when a woman walks by.

She completed her shopping and as she came out of mall; a creepy guy got close to her grabbed her by the arm and put his hand on her chest, felt, grabbed her then released her seconds later and continued walking as if nothing happened.

She was left stunned; this made her so scared, after a few seconds she came to her sense and made evil supplication: "May you lose your hand," she wiped off her tears and moved away from there. He'd heard that girl is cursing him and those curse words had followed him.

Hurt No One

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We humans are really very strange beings, even we can't understand each other properly. I have noticed that animals are treated better than humans, many people feel pain and sympathy for animals but not for human beings. Why people care for animal more than humans? Is it because animals don't stop them from stupidity and animals don't raise question about their wrong doings?

There are people who worried about hungry birds and try to do their best to provide them food and when they are also annoyed with ants; those attack their kitchen and go into every jar, pots and food but they feel helpless because of sympathy and fear of committing sin if they use ants killer powder or spray in defence. And there are cats and dogs lovers, they deeply feel hurt when their cat or dog feeling not well, if their pet die they cry for many days but at same time they are very rude with their own family members, blunt and abusive with siblings and are the most disobedient children of their parents.

Relationships Aren’t Easy

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Indeed relationships are not difficult and complicated but we people are complicated so make relationships complicated. We complicate everything, when in reality everything is so simple. Even though dealing relationships wisely is not easy at all. Individually we all have  strengths and weaknesses in our self. Some people are easy going so getting along with them is easier but the others are trouble maker but naturally both kind of persons have heart, feelings, mind and soul.

Are You A Kind Person?

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Kindness is a gift everyone afford to give.

Kindness is the most precious moral behaviour. Kindness is mixture of many other virtues like love, compassionate, sympathy, positive emotions, courtesy, affection and care. Kindness is important virtue to have, it makes you a moral human being, we show kindness through soft and  sincere words and actions.

Do You Have Right To Judge Others?

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Happy is the person who finds fault with himself instead of finding fault with others.

I really feel bad whenever I see people comment on posts of facebook pages that are about affairs of famous  personalities those belong to electronic media or politics etc. I don't know why people feel eager to comment in more biased way and use cheapest words for them, don't they know who are we to poke our nose into their matters or to judge them badly and gossip about their life. We are not judge and jury, it’s arrogant to judge anybody. We don’t know their whole story so why we assume. To me it's not freedom of speech but judging others unfairly. After all no one  enjoys to being judged.

An Argument

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Most arguments are caused by a misunderstanding of the fact that "I am Right".

Arguments take place between strong relationships, no matter what kind of relationship we have with family, bosses, friends, or life partner.  Arguments are part of life, arguing is not necessarily a sign of a bad relationship. There are many reasons why arguments occur.

Arguments start because of misunderstandings, disagreements on specific matter or sometimes one or both persons are mentally disturbed and they want to exhaust their inner stress through fight.

No Place For Racism

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When we look around and observe carefully we will notice discrimination in our society. Wheresoever it may be in offices, restaurants, or even local malls, we people discriminated each other, on the sole basis of skin colour, cast creed, religions, cultures. yes of course race.

We may define racism as the hatred of one person by another or the belief that another person is less than human because of skin colour, language, customs, place of birth or any factor that supposedly reveals the basic nature of that person.  This can then lead to abusive or aggressive behaviour towards members of another community on the basis of such a belief. That is how the slave trade began many years ago.

I don’t believe in borders, in barriers, in flags. I think that we all belong, independent of latitude and longitude, to the same family, the human family. ~Vittorio Arrigoni

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Say no to racism. Say yes to equality.

Racism is one of the severe diseases of human society. Racism has birthed many of society’s ills. Discrimination, separation, and segregation are products of a racist mentality. When one race acts out its superior beliefs in a society, there is no room for harmony or community.

Racists tend to feel threatened by anyone who is from a different race, religion, or culture. It comes from ignorance and fear brought on by stereotypes.
Racism affects badly, if anyone experiences racism of any kind, they can feel lonely and, getting depressed, sad. Like bullying, they may also try and avoid situations where racist behaviour could occur, and pretend to be ill, play truant from school, or be scared to leave their house.
We are not born racist and racism is not in our genes. It comes from our views and beliefs that develop as we grow up. We can be influenced by friends, family, newspapers, and society in general. Racism is abnormal and unacceptable, it is based on ignorance and fear. It’s serious stuff and one that we all want to avoid.

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Racism is treating someone differently or unfairly simply because 

they belong to a different ethnic community.

Just treat all people as people:

Islam is the most anti-racist and anti-prejudicial way of life. Islam calls for equality and brotherhood of mankind. No racism. no superiority, no tribalism but kindness and respect to the other. Allah (God) doesn't look at the colour of our skin; He looks at the level of our Imaan (Faith).
Allah says in Quran:

'O people! We created you from one man and one woman and made you branches and tribes that you may recognise one another. Undoubtedly, the most respected among you in the sight of Allah is he who is more pious, verily, Allah is knowing, Aware.  Surah Al-Hujurat : Ayat 13

No racism, we are the same.

Messenger eradicated the problem of racial or colour discrimination so successfully he said; "All mankind is from Adam and Eve, an Arab has no superiority over a non-Arab nor a non-Arab has any superiority over an Arab; also a white has no superiority over black nor a black has any superiority over white except by piety and good action."

I Am A Woman

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A Letter To The West That Raised Me

By Yasmin Mogahed

Growing up, you read me the Ugly Duckling. And for years I believed that was me. I am a woman—that ugly duckling among men. For so long you taught me I was nothing more than a bad copy of the standard.

I couldn’t run as fast or lift as much. I didn’t make the same money and I cried too often. I grew up in a man’s world where I didn’t belong.

We And Our Parents

Being dutiful to parents is one of the keys to enter Paradise.

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Give your parents roses while they are alive, not dead.

Once, while conversing with Almighty Allah, Prophet Musa/Moses (Peace Be Upon Him) requested: "O' Lord! I desire to meet the person, who is to be my companion in Paradise."

Jibril (Gabriel) descended and informed Prophet Musa/Moses (Peace Be Upon Him) that his companion was to be a butcher who lived in a certain place. Prophet Musa/Moses (Peace Be Upon Him) set out in search of him and arrived at his shop, when he noticed a youth, resembling a night watchman, busy selling meat.

He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not

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We all have a basic need to be loved. When we are children we are content with parental love and family bonds make us feel satisfy and secure. When we mature and we form romantic relationships, most individuals feel a natural need to love and be loved in return.

Love is so common word in our everyday vocabulary. Specially guys use love like it's not a big thing. Guys randomly throw “I love you” around like it’s nothing, so girls! do not flatter your self.

Three Words

There are many things that you can do to strengthen your relationships. Often the most effective thing you can do involves saying just three words. When spoken sincerely, these statements often have the power to develop new friendships, deepen old ones and even bring healing to relationships that have soured.

The following three-word phrases can be tools to help develop every relationship.

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Can I Help?

Good friends see a need and then try to fill it. When they see a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they jump in and help out.

Guard Your Heart Girls

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Heart is so precious and fragile, and yet so complicated, that there are parts and feelings it holds that are specially reserved as a gift for married couples. This results in the need for us to be alert and guarding our hearts at all times; primarily, when it comes to relationships. 

This is especially true for females, who tend to have a God-given desire to be loved, cherished, protected and understood by an earthly, godly man. This is not a bad thing at all, except for when we go seeking it from a bunch of different guys through flirting or relationships, instead of realizing that Allah (God) already fulfills this desire, and only our God-given future husband could help amplify it.