Pride The Capital Sin

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Pride is an attitude; that arises when a person is amazed with his own self, that person feels superior to others, he believes that he is superior to others, pride fill his mind with the thought of self-importance. He feels that he is better than other people. Arrogance means rejecting the truth and looking down on people.

Do You Have Right To Judge Others?

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Happy is the person who finds fault with himself instead of finding fault with others.

I really feel bad whenever I see people comment on posts of facebook pages that are about affairs of famous  personalities those belong to electronic media or politics etc. I don't know why people feel eager to comment in more biased way and use cheapest words for them, don't they know who are we to poke our nose into their matters or to judge them badly and gossip about their life. We are not judge and jury, it’s arrogant to judge anybody. We don’t know their whole story so why we assume. To me it's not freedom of speech but judging others unfairly. After all no one  enjoys to being judged.

Allah Loves Not Those

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Allah (God) does not love the transgressors. Surah Al-Baqara : Ayat 190

Allah (God) loves not any ungrateful big sinner. Surah Al-Baqara : Ayat 276

Allah (God) loves not the infidels. Surah Al-i'Imran : Ayat 32

No Place For Racism

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When we look around and observe carefully we will notice discrimination in our society. Wheresoever it may be in offices, restaurants, or even local malls, we people discriminated each other, on the sole basis of skin colour, cast creed, religions, cultures. yes of course race.

We may define racism as the hatred of one person by another or the belief that another person is less than human because of skin colour, language, customs, place of birth or any factor that supposedly reveals the basic nature of that person.  This can then lead to abusive or aggressive behaviour towards members of another community on the basis of such a belief. That is how the slave trade began many years ago.

I don’t believe in borders, in barriers, in flags. I think that we all belong, independent of latitude and longitude, to the same family, the human family. ~Vittorio Arrigoni

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Say no to racism. Say yes to equality.

Racism is one of the severe diseases of human society. Racism has birthed many of society’s ills. Discrimination, separation, and segregation are products of a racist mentality. When one race acts out its superior beliefs in a society, there is no room for harmony or community.

Racists tend to feel threatened by anyone who is from a different race, religion, or culture. It comes from ignorance and fear brought on by stereotypes.
Racism affects badly, if anyone experiences racism of any kind, they can feel lonely and, getting depressed, sad. Like bullying, they may also try and avoid situations where racist behaviour could occur, and pretend to be ill, play truant from school, or be scared to leave their house.
We are not born racist and racism is not in our genes. It comes from our views and beliefs that develop as we grow up. We can be influenced by friends, family, newspapers, and society in general. Racism is abnormal and unacceptable, it is based on ignorance and fear. It’s serious stuff and one that we all want to avoid.

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Racism is treating someone differently or unfairly simply because 

they belong to a different ethnic community.

Just treat all people as people:

Islam is the most anti-racist and anti-prejudicial way of life. Islam calls for equality and brotherhood of mankind. No racism. no superiority, no tribalism but kindness and respect to the other. Allah (God) doesn't look at the colour of our skin; He looks at the level of our Imaan (Faith).
Allah says in Quran:

'O people! We created you from one man and one woman and made you branches and tribes that you may recognise one another. Undoubtedly, the most respected among you in the sight of Allah is he who is more pious, verily, Allah is knowing, Aware.  Surah Al-Hujurat : Ayat 13

No racism, we are the same.

Messenger eradicated the problem of racial or colour discrimination so successfully he said; "All mankind is from Adam and Eve, an Arab has no superiority over a non-Arab nor a non-Arab has any superiority over an Arab; also a white has no superiority over black nor a black has any superiority over white except by piety and good action."

I Am A Woman

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A Letter To The West That Raised Me

By Yasmin Mogahed

Growing up, you read me the Ugly Duckling. And for years I believed that was me. I am a woman—that ugly duckling among men. For so long you taught me I was nothing more than a bad copy of the standard.

I couldn’t run as fast or lift as much. I didn’t make the same money and I cried too often. I grew up in a man’s world where I didn’t belong.

A Muslim Man’s Love Letter

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If you love me, don’t confess your love to me through haraam (forbidden) ways,

This won’t please me and will instead drive me away!

Love games don’t attract me.

If you love me, have sabar (patience) and I will knock on your door when the time is right.

Don’t give me privileges which I don’t deserve.

Keep me away from you, and I will approach you.

If you approach me, I will stay away from you.

Don’t love me, for I want you ignorant in love.

A Secret Fighting

Today; I am going to pull your attention towards a very sensitive topic. A secret struggle that takes place among those, who are habitual of it. It is a struggle against their own body, if a person will not fight against it, it will take complete hold on doer and make him/her slave of dirty and lustful desires. Mostly people even not realize what is it. It is a private behavior rarely shared or discussed in public. I have chosen to write about masturbation a topic which is commonly perceived as taboo because it is an unpleasant and unethical act. Masturbation is very evil indeed, it is impermissible (haraam) to masturbate.
It is very delicate topic need to be discussed under Islamic and ethical, healthy and positive point of view just for awareness and cure sake.

Small Things Matter

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We say a simple Salaam (greetings) to anyone, we’re rewarded.
We smile at someone, we’re rewarded.
We treat someone with kindness, we’re rewarded.
We begin anything with Bismillaah (in the name of Allah (God), that action of us is rewarded.
We end our activities with Alhamdulillah (Thanking to Allah (God), we’re also rewarded.
We think of doing a good deed, we’re rewarded.

Boyfriend And Girlfriend Relationship

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Islam is a strong advocate of marriage.

We live in a society where communication with the opposite sex is compuslory at some point of our lives. But as for a having a relationship with the opposite sex is concerned, this is indeed forbidden in Islam. Boyfriend and girlfriend relationship has become a common thing also in our Pakistani society. People think there is no harm in having such relation. It has become so common that we don't feel ashamed of it. In Islam, there is no such thing as a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship, it is strictly forbidden.

Suicide Is Not An Answer To Life’s Problems

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Suicide is a global issue. Nearly one million suicides occur worldwide every year, which means that every forty (40) seconds somebody dies by suicide, with anywhere from 10 million to 20 million suicide attempts annually. According to some research suicide rates are 50%-60% higher than the official rate. The current attitude and dilemmas, unlike in previous times, suicide is so common. The reasons why a person to commit suicide are multifaceted and complex as the thousands of people who do so every year. These days it seems suicide among teens and young adults is out of control. We are regularly hearing reports about someone taking their life.

Watch Your Words

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Allah says:

"Not a word does one utter, except that there is an (angel) Watching, Ready to record it."  

Surah Qaf : Ayat 18

On the authority of Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him), the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak good things or keep silent.

A Muslim Woman Can Propose To A Muslim Man

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A Muslim woman is allowed to approach a man with a marriage proposal, if she comes to know of a man who has good character, Deen and would be a good husband, she can approach him in an honorable way with a marriage proposal. This may be seen as improper or brazen in some cultures. But that is a cultural attitude, not an Islamic one.

After Hardship There is Ease

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Thank You Allah, For Giving Us A Lot More Than Our Share

"And O beloved, when My bondsmen ask you about Me, then I am indeed near, accept the call of the caller when he calls upon Me; then they should obey My Commands and believe in Me, so that they may get the way."

 (Surah Al-Baqara : Ayah186)

We ask, He gives.

We cry, He listens.

We call, He runs.

We sin, He forgives.

We repent, He forgives.

We knock, He opens.

We attend, He welcomes.

We nag, He hears.

We request, He accepts.

We questions, He solves.

We plea, He resolves.

We take, He provides.

We insist, He grant.

Everything we do, is about us and everything He does, is about us.

So
"Which of the favours of your Lord can you deny?" (Surah Ar-Rahman : 18)

"And He gave you many things you asked for. And if you count the favours of Allah, you cannot count. No doubt, man is very unjust, un-thankful." (Surah Ibrahim : Ayat 34)

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Allah bestwoned upon us countless blessings. 

If we start writing them all, our life would come to end but Allah’s blessing will never finish.

To give thanks for blessings is itself a blessing, one can never cease to give thanks.

A believer thanks Allah for everything and in every situation.