Till Death Do Us Part

Marriage is a permanent commitment between a man and a woman; a single piece of marriage paper unite them legally, socially, economically, and emotionally. It is a kind of commitment that tie a couple for the rest of their lives. Otherwise a lack of commitment to the marriage become the reason for separation/divorce. In fact when your futures are tied together, you become more committed to your marriage, give up your choices, and act carefully.

Undeniably, marriage is hard and life after marriage may not prove easygoing as we expect or wish; still you can earn the benefits of it by adjustment, compromise and sacrifice; indeed friendship, respect and understanding are the basics of marriage. For keeping your marriage healthy, happy and strong, you have to work on it everyday.

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Relationships Aren’t Easy

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Indeed relationships are not difficult and complicated but we people are complicated so make relationships complicated. We complicate everything, when in reality everything is so simple. Even though dealing relationships wisely is not easy at all. Individually we all have  strengths and weaknesses in our self. Some people are easy going so getting along with them is easier but the others are trouble maker but naturally both kind of persons have heart, feelings, mind and soul.

Are You A Kind Person?

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Kindness is a gift everyone afford to give.

Kindness is the most precious moral behaviour. Kindness is mixture of many other virtues like love, compassionate, sympathy, positive emotions, courtesy, affection and care. Kindness is important virtue to have, it makes you a moral human being, we show kindness through soft and  sincere words and actions.

Allah Loves Not Those

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Allah (God) does not love the transgressors. Surah Al-Baqara : Ayat 190

Allah (God) loves not any ungrateful big sinner. Surah Al-Baqara : Ayat 276

Allah (God) loves not the infidels. Surah Al-i'Imran : Ayat 32

Love Of Allah

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Good doers are the beloveds of Allah. 

Surah Al-Baqara : Ayat 195

Allah loves the pious ones. 

Surah At-Tauba : Ayat 7

A Muslim Man’s Love Letter

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If you love me, don’t confess your love to me through haraam (forbidden) ways,

This won’t please me and will instead drive me away!

Love games don’t attract me.

If you love me, have sabar (patience) and I will knock on your door when the time is right.

Don’t give me privileges which I don’t deserve.

Keep me away from you, and I will approach you.

If you approach me, I will stay away from you.

Don’t love me, for I want you ignorant in love.

He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not

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We all have a basic need to be loved. When we are children we are content with parental love and family bonds make us feel satisfy and secure. When we mature and we form romantic relationships, most individuals feel a natural need to love and be loved in return.

Love is so common word in our everyday vocabulary. Specially guys use love like it's not a big thing. Guys randomly throw “I love you” around like it’s nothing, so girls! do not flatter your self.

Three Words

There are many things that you can do to strengthen your relationships. Often the most effective thing you can do involves saying just three words. When spoken sincerely, these statements often have the power to develop new friendships, deepen old ones and even bring healing to relationships that have soured.

The following three-word phrases can be tools to help develop every relationship.

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Can I Help?

Good friends see a need and then try to fill it. When they see a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they jump in and help out.

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Islam is a strong advocate of marriage.

We live in a society where communication with the opposite sex is compuslory at some point of our lives. But as for a having a relationship with the opposite sex is concerned, this is indeed forbidden in Islam. Boyfriend and girlfriend relationship has become a common thing also in our Pakistani society. People think there is no harm in having such relation. It has become so common that we don't feel ashamed of it. In Islam, there is no such thing as a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship, it is strictly forbidden.

Guard Your Heart Girls

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Heart is so precious and fragile, and yet so complicated, that there are parts and feelings it holds that are specially reserved as a gift for married couples. This results in the need for us to be alert and guarding our hearts at all times; primarily, when it comes to relationships. 

This is especially true for females, who tend to have a God-given desire to be loved, cherished, protected and understood by an earthly, godly man. This is not a bad thing at all, except for when we go seeking it from a bunch of different guys through flirting or relationships, instead of realizing that Allah (God) already fulfills this desire, and only our God-given future husband could help amplify it.

Friends Till The End

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Friends 'till the end,

That's what we always said,

Even when all hopes were dead.

Friends 'till the end,

We will always be,

Nothing can ever come between you and me.

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We And Relationships

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I've noticed in my life that we all want to be loved, understood and cared about. But mostly what we get, instead, is a feeling of being misunderstood, rejected and betrayed.

In society we're taught it's not OK to feel pain or hurt. Men, especially, feel they're not strong if they feel pain or hurt. It's crucial that we allow ourselves to feel those vulnerable feelings, because we can't heal them unless we're willing to feel them.

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There are three phases of knowledge in Islam. When a Muslim has a little bit of knowledge, he or she speaks a lot. When a Muslim has increased his or her knowledge, he or she feels humble. When a Muslim has collected an abundance of knowledge, he or she is silent. In Islam, "silence is a mark of intelligence."

Wait Patiently:

"When Allah(God) knows you’re ready for the responsibility of commitment, He’ll reveal the right person under the right circumstances. Wait patiently. Don’t waste your time searching and wishing. Grow and be ready, you’ll see Allah (God) will give you a love story far better than you could ever dream of."

Is Life Just A Lie?

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In life whenever we got cheated unexpectedly by people who are not only around us but also are really very close to us, at those times we feel Life is a lie. We feel crap. It hurts so bad and feels so empty inside.

A guy shared his feelings when he got cheated in love. 

He said: "I have just experienced the worst break up ever and I know how absolutely devastating and heart crunching feel when long distance relationship ended for no reason. I cared about her deeply, I believed that our relationship was passionate and we both love each other. And now how I tell a story of a person, who betrayed me and that same person promise me to be everything in my life. I took my relationship with her as a fairy tale relationship. But now I lost my love my dream my innocent future.

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