Sometimes you are involved in a situation that demands you to lie; it happens when people ask you about their looks or someone ask about the meal that they serve/cook and then you become confused; you don't want to hurt the feelings of someone by telling the difficult truth and also don't like to speak lie.
Lying is also part of communication and we tend to lie a lot.
Mostly these may not be big lies, but it's not the matter the size of the lie. Lies are lies; big or small. Making false statements is one of those things that are fundamentally bad and forbidden. Lying is not permissible. Like each long journey starts with a small step as a person becomes a habitual of lying after speaking small lies and after lying too much, they will get used to it, they end up feeling like a liar, these small lies make him so dare, comfortable and careless regarding lying or a wrong-doing.
Many lairs justify their false statements as white lies or call their lies good for themselves or someone else.
When you observe, you will notice that you have to lie in certain circumstances:
1: You lie to protect someone’s feelings, when anyone ask you about their looks, how am I looking in this pants? am I looking fat? and then you have to compliment them without meaning it because you don't want to hurt their feelings or don't wanna any mess, you only find escape in lying.
2: You speak lie very quickly when it comes to making false excuses.
3: There are fake smiles, only lies are not to deceive, smiles are too misleading.
4: Lying is in jokes too/racial jokes, jokes based on race and nationality are false, like jokes about Africans,
5: You speak lie when you have to sell something, mostly advertisement based on exaggerations and misleading people and advertising promises too much. There is lying, products are not as perfect and useful as they present their things.
6: We lie confidently while we are bargaining, you wanna to reap benefits from making lies during bargaining.
7: When we admire our friends for gaining their favour/making wrong praise; making false statements like, Wow dear you are looking gorgeous. I don't think it is really you
8: Lying is also present in formal conversations: you always respond, fine, whenever any strangers ask about you, or when you don't want to upset any close one.9: And while showing gratitude.
White lies are helpful and would not hurt anyone, save relationships, mostly ease hectic situations and also on occasions have good intentions behind, but in spite of all benefits of white lies, these are not totally good. The habit of telling the white lies make a person to speak more and more lies in future and turn him into a liar, then he may find it's easier the more serious lies and to avoid telling truths. There is such a thin line between innocent/white lies and serious lies; once you cross it, it's difficult to come back.
Many lairs justify their false statements as white lies or call their lies good for themselves or someone else; they find lying as a helping tool to fix issues, to win conflicts and to make their lives go smoothly.
But in fact lying has many negative effects:
Lying destroys the inner peace of liars, feelings of guilt make them depressed, they feel fear of being caught and the burden of remembering of their lies. Lying not only destroy trust, but also liars have to lose someone they love, lying push the close ones away and then relationship fails. Lies make easy matters complicated. And the biggest disadvantage of lying is for liar that he lost his personality image and respect in society.
