Sunday, 25 March 2012

Relationships Aren’t Easy


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Indeed relationships are not difficult and complicated but we people are complicated so make relationships complicated. We complicate everything, when in reality everything is so simple. Even though dealing relationships wisely is not easy at all. Individually we all have  strengths and weaknesses in our self. Some people are easy going so getting along with them is easier but the others are trouble maker but naturally both kind of persons have heart, feelings, mind and soul.
In relationships problems take place when we start expecting. Expectations are main problem in relationships, just or unjust expectations both are involved in creating unfavourable  situations.
A serious problem emerges when everybody start to expect something in return, like one makes sacrifice then he/she ask same from other partner or demand for a favour of other kind. When other partner doesn't fulfil demands then disappointment comes from not getting what ones expect; so one of them get mad and things become worse.
"Giving and not expecting anything in return" is a great rule to be followed in any relationship for a healthy  relationship. It takes two to make a successful relationship complete. Marriage demands flexibility and compromises in our life, plans and decisions. Long-term relationships and marriages are not so much hard, they require work and effort from both sides equally.

20 comments:

  1. a very well expressed and focus writting on relationships ... Keep it up :)

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  2. Your Excellence. relationships are life ... in all times:up and down: keep these relations away From personal like dislike ... Smiles,tears,luck,good and bad everything is part of life and relationships are means of life .. No matter how bad relationship status is:Just think for the good time and let it go and wait for the good day with your own initiatives for the betterment of the relations. The only thing time and our religion teach us is have Patience and Peace in every aspect of life and role you have. stay blessed and make this world a better place with bright words and actions :)

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  3. excellent,.beautifully written.

    you are a genius.

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  4. Very good post. The other thing about relationships is that they are meant to be tests for us. How we deal with one another is all a test. Thus, really being good at relationships goes hand in hand with recognizing the test and moving through it exactly how you described - with forgiveness, patience, compromise, etc. - in order to pass the test.

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  5. @All: Thanks for dropping by... :)
    Be Blessed Always...

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  6. Ahhhhh!!!! A lot to times relationships suck, and yes every relation at one point in time does suck, but then u cannot imagine a life without these relationships.

    And I think that the most important thing in a relationship is trust, respect and honesty.

    "Giving and not expecting anything in return" Yaarrrrr u know this is just not possible :/

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  7. @Aliza Khan: Not expecting anything in return is not impossible, one will have this kind of attitude being more mature, positive person and along with understanding... :)

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  8. Wise advices Asma. I agree Relationships are work, lots of work. But relationship also are rewarding.
    "Giving and not expecting anything in return" - something I keep repeating myself, hard in practice but so true.
    Take care Asma!

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  9. @MarieHarmony: Thank you... :)
    Be Blessed ...

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  10. nicely written.... and the advices are really wise

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