Relationships Aren’t Easy

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Indeed relationships are not difficult and complicated but we people are complicated so make relationships complicated. We complicate everything, when in reality everything is so simple. Even though dealing relationships wisely is not easy at all. Individually we all have  strengths and weaknesses in our self. Some people are easy going so getting along with them is easier but the others are trouble maker but naturally both kind of persons have heart, feelings, mind and soul.

In relationships problems take place when we start expecting. Expectations are main problem in relationships, just or unjust expectations both are involved in creating unfavourable  situations.

A serious problem emerges when everybody start to expect something in return, like one makes sacrifice then he/she ask same from other partner or demand for a favour of other kind. When other partner doesn't fulfil demands then disappointment comes from not getting what ones expect; so one of them get mad and things become worse.

"Giving and not expecting anything in return" is a great rule to be followed in any relationship for a healthy  relationship. It takes two to make a successful relationship complete. Marriage demands flexibility and compromises in our life, plans and decisions. Long-term relationships and marriages are not so much hard, they require work and effort from both sides equally.