No Place For Racism

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When we look around and observe carefully we will notice discrimination in our society. Wheresoever it may be in offices, restaurants, or even local malls, we people discriminated each other, on the sole basis of skin colour, cast creed, religions, cultures. yes of course race.

We may define racism as the hatred of one person by another or the belief that another person is less than human because of skin colour, language, customs, place of birth or any factor that supposedly reveals the basic nature of that person.  This can then lead to abusive or aggressive behaviour towards members of another community on the basis of such a belief. That is how the slave trade began many years ago.

I don’t believe in borders, in barriers, in flags. I think that we all belong, independent of latitude and longitude, to the same family, the human family. ~Vittorio Arrigoni

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Say no to racism. Say yes to equality.

Racism is one of the severe diseases of human society. Racism has birthed many of society’s ills. Discrimination, separation, and segregation are products of a racist mentality. When one race acts out its superior beliefs in a society, there is no room for harmony or community.

Racists tend to feel threatened by anyone who is from a different race, religion, or culture. It comes from ignorance and fear brought on by stereotypes.
Racism affects badly, if anyone experiences racism of any kind, they can feel lonely and, getting depressed, sad. Like bullying, they may also try and avoid situations where racist behaviour could occur, and pretend to be ill, play truant from school, or be scared to leave their house.
We are not born racist and racism is not in our genes. It comes from our views and beliefs that develop as we grow up. We can be influenced by friends, family, newspapers, and society in general. Racism is abnormal and unacceptable, it is based on ignorance and fear. It’s serious stuff and one that we all want to avoid.

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Racism is treating someone differently or unfairly simply because 

they belong to a different ethnic community.

Just treat all people as people:

Islam is the most anti-racist and anti-prejudicial way of life. Islam calls for equality and brotherhood of mankind. No racism. no superiority, no tribalism but kindness and respect to the other. Allah (God) doesn't look at the colour of our skin; He looks at the level of our Imaan (Faith).
Allah says in Quran:

'O people! We created you from one man and one woman and made you branches and tribes that you may recognise one another. Undoubtedly, the most respected among you in the sight of Allah is he who is more pious, verily, Allah is knowing, Aware.  Surah Al-Hujurat : Ayat 13

No racism, we are the same.

Messenger eradicated the problem of racial or colour discrimination so successfully he said; "All mankind is from Adam and Eve, an Arab has no superiority over a non-Arab nor a non-Arab has any superiority over an Arab; also a white has no superiority over black nor a black has any superiority over white except by piety and good action."

You Smile, I Melt

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Smile! Why? Because you can.

Always wear a smile, not because life is full of reasons to smile but because your smile itself is a reason for many 

others to smile.

Smiling is a natural drug, a stress relief Smiling lowers blood pressure, smiling boosts immune system.

Be A Gentleman

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A man can be as great as he wants to be.

Real men do cry and they do show emotion. 

Asking for directions is what real smart men do.

Courtesy is as much a mark of a gentleman as courage.

I Am A Woman

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A Letter To The West That Raised Me

By Yasmin Mogahed

Growing up, you read me the Ugly Duckling. And for years I believed that was me. I am a woman—that ugly duckling among men. For so long you taught me I was nothing more than a bad copy of the standard.

I couldn’t run as fast or lift as much. I didn’t make the same money and I cried too often. I grew up in a man’s world where I didn’t belong.

Lower Your Gaze And Be Modest

People need to be reminded about the "Male Hijab".

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Allah (God) created us with desires and urges, He also revealed to us sufficient and complete guidance to properly channel these desires. 

A Story Of A Muslim Brother and A Hospital Nurse

There was a companion of ours in Glasgow who became ill and was hospitalised. He was admitted for three days and on the fourth day the attendant nurse said, “Marry me”. 

He [the brother in Glasgow] asked, “Why? I am a Muslim, you and I cannot become companions.” 

She said, “I’ll become Muslim”. 

“What’s the reason?” it was asked. 

We And Our Parents

Being dutiful to parents is one of the keys to enter Paradise.

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Give your parents roses while they are alive, not dead.

Once, while conversing with Almighty Allah, Prophet Musa/Moses (Peace Be Upon Him) requested: "O' Lord! I desire to meet the person, who is to be my companion in Paradise."

Jibril (Gabriel) descended and informed Prophet Musa/Moses (Peace Be Upon Him) that his companion was to be a butcher who lived in a certain place. Prophet Musa/Moses (Peace Be Upon Him) set out in search of him and arrived at his shop, when he noticed a youth, resembling a night watchman, busy selling meat.

More Prayers Less Worries

Many times in life we pray, but we don't receive specific answers to our prayers. There are many reason why we do not get our payers answered. And in the result we feel sick, broken, disappointed and defeated.

I think it is very important to understand that why our payers are unanswered and how to get answers to our prayers.

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Human For Sale

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Human Trafficking is a heinous crime against humanity and an international issue. Every country in the world is affected by trafficking. Indeed human trafficking has been institutionalized; you may say a lucrative industry.

Every year, thousands of men, women and children fall into the hands of traffickers, in their own countries and abroad. Human trafficking usually affects women and children. Human trafficking depends on the use of force, fraud, or compels to exploit a person for profit. It has a worst impact on individual victims. Trafficking is a crime that violates the fundamental human rights of its victims.

Discover Islam

Islam Promote Peace

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Allah means by literal definition, 'The only absolute that which is worshiped'.
Prophet Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him) as a mercy to mankind, his mission was for the whole world. He was sent to perfect morals and character.
Islam by definition means surrender and submission only to the One True Creator (Allah).
A Muslim by definition means one who surrenders and submits to the laws of Allah (God). Allah says about Prophet Ibrahim (Abraham) Peace Be Upon Him, "When his Lord said to him, "Surrender" (be a Muslim), submitted he, 'I surrendered to Him (as a Muslim), Who is the Lord of all the worlds'. Surah Al-Baqara:Ayat 131
Islam described by the Divine Book Quran, it is the most comprehensive book available to mankind for guidance and nothing has been omitted from it.

Good Muslim, Good Human Being.

کچھ یہاں وہاں سے

لڑکے کی ماں: "مسز فرحت! ہم دیکھ آئے لڑکی، لڑکی تو پسند آئی پر فیملی عجیب تھی

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-نہیں بھئی، لڑکی کا رنگ ذرا دبا ہوا ہے

Smoking And Facts

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Smoking contains poisonous materials, such as nicotine, tar, carbon monoxide, arsenic, Benzedrine, etc, which the smoker inhales in small proportions. Their harm accumulates in time, resulting in a gradual damage of the human organs and tissues. 

Harms Of Smoking:

The harm that smoking does to the human body is undeniable. Any way did you know?

A Muslim Man’s Love Letter

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If you love me, don’t confess your love to me through haraam (forbidden) ways,

This won’t please me and will instead drive me away!

Love games don’t attract me.

If you love me, have sabar (patience) and I will knock on your door when the time is right.

Don’t give me privileges which I don’t deserve.

Keep me away from you, and I will approach you.

If you approach me, I will stay away from you.

Don’t love me, for I want you ignorant in love.

A Secret Fighting

Today; I am going to pull your attention towards a very sensitive topic. A secret struggle that takes place among those, who are habitual of it. It is a struggle against their own body, if a person will not fight against it, it will take complete hold on doer and make him/her slave of dirty and lustful desires. Mostly people even not realize what is it. It is a private behavior rarely shared or discussed in public. I have chosen to write about masturbation a topic which is commonly perceived as taboo because it is an unpleasant and unethical act. Masturbation is very evil indeed, it is impermissible (haraam) to masturbate.
It is very delicate topic need to be discussed under Islamic and ethical, healthy and positive point of view just for awareness and cure sake.

Let Your Inward Beauty Shine

Dear Muslim Sisters, please take a look at the following beauty tips, so that you can stay attractive and beautiful for the rest of your life.

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He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not

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We all have a basic need to be loved. When we are children we are content with parental love and family bonds make us feel satisfy and secure. When we mature and we form romantic relationships, most individuals feel a natural need to love and be loved in return.

Love is so common word in our everyday vocabulary. Specially guys use love like it's not a big thing. Guys randomly throw “I love you” around like it’s nothing, so girls! do not flatter your self.

Small Things Matter

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We say a simple Salaam (greetings) to anyone, we’re rewarded.
We smile at someone, we’re rewarded.
We treat someone with kindness, we’re rewarded.
We begin anything with Bismillaah (in the name of Allah (God), that action of us is rewarded.
We end our activities with Alhamdulillah (Thanking to Allah (God), we’re also rewarded.
We think of doing a good deed, we’re rewarded.

Give Blood, Give Life

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Blood Donation, is considered as one of the most noble effort of human towards mankind which he/she can put in his/her lifetime, as the value to few drops of blood cannot be measured in any terms by anyone except than the one who survived due to those few drops from the mouth of death.

Three Words

There are many things that you can do to strengthen your relationships. Often the most effective thing you can do involves saying just three words. When spoken sincerely, these statements often have the power to develop new friendships, deepen old ones and even bring healing to relationships that have soured.

The following three-word phrases can be tools to help develop every relationship.

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Can I Help?

Good friends see a need and then try to fill it. When they see a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they jump in and help out.

Boyfriend And Girlfriend Relationship

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Islam is a strong advocate of marriage.

We live in a society where communication with the opposite sex is compuslory at some point of our lives. But as for a having a relationship with the opposite sex is concerned, this is indeed forbidden in Islam. Boyfriend and girlfriend relationship has become a common thing also in our Pakistani society. People think there is no harm in having such relation. It has become so common that we don't feel ashamed of it. In Islam, there is no such thing as a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship, it is strictly forbidden.

Anger

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The strong is not the one who overcomes the people by his strength, but the strong is the one who controls himself while in anger. (Sahih Bukhari)

When anger rises, think of the consequences.

Anger always comes from frustrated expectations.

Being angry doesn't mean that you have right to be cruel.

Suicide Is Not An Answer To Life’s Problems

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Suicide is a global issue. Nearly one million suicides occur worldwide every year, which means that every forty (40) seconds somebody dies by suicide, with anywhere from 10 million to 20 million suicide attempts annually. According to some research suicide rates are 50%-60% higher than the official rate. The current attitude and dilemmas, unlike in previous times, suicide is so common. The reasons why a person to commit suicide are multifaceted and complex as the thousands of people who do so every year. These days it seems suicide among teens and young adults is out of control. We are regularly hearing reports about someone taking their life.

Watch Your Words

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Allah says:

"Not a word does one utter, except that there is an (angel) Watching, Ready to record it."  

Surah Qaf : Ayat 18

On the authority of Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him), the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak good things or keep silent.

Allah Loves Me The Most

Few days back my friend consoled me by these kind words, "You have a weak relation with Allah (God) so you take every little matter as a big problem and believe that everyone is a saint." My other friend explained a very beautiful point to me, "You should release your tears for Allah (God) specially when you ask pardon from HIM."

These words help me a lot while I was composing my self and my shattered trust. So the following post is especially for my self, it's indeed self-realization. Insha Allah I will make a strong bond with Allah The One and Only God, Creator and Sustainer of the universe.

The Best Women Of Paradise [4]

In this world, every day thousands to millions of people are being born and others goes to departure for never having chance to come back in our world. When we look behind and read the history then we come to know about few immortal beings, indeed they are alive with us because their high status that they achieved by living life in such a great way, and became examples for us till the world end.

It's urged that we not only remind them but also follow their path and adopt their ways of life so shall we get success like them. Islam is a religion that give women high status. Lets recalls our memories about four greatest women of Paradise. Indeed these great ladies are true source of  strength and inspiration.

Hazart Anas (May Allah Be Pleased With Him) reports that Prophet Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him) has said: "The best women of mankind are four: Maryam daughter of `Imraan, Asiya wife of Pharaoh, Khadija daughter of Khuwailid, and Fatima the daughter of the Messenger of Allaah." [Bukhari and Muslim]

This hadith is about four women who acquired perfection in faith and character by virtue of their devotion, patience and morality. Their lives are guidance and examples for all believers, especially in times of hardship, difficulty and struggle. 

Lady Fatimah (May Allah Be Pleased With Her) 

The Best women Of Paradise [3]

In this world, every day thousands to millions of people are being born and others goes to departure for never having chance to come back in our world. When we look behind and read the history then we come to know about few immortal beings, indeed they are alive with us because their high status that they achieved by living life in such a great way, and became examples for us till the world end.

It's urged that we not only remind them but also follow their path and adopt their ways of life so shall we get success like them. Islam is a religion that give women high status. Lets recalls our memories about four greatest women of Paradise. Indeed these great ladies are true source of  strength and inspiration.

Hazart Anas (May Allah Be Pleased With Him) reports that Prophet Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him) has said: "The best women of mankind are four: Maryam daughter of `Imraan, Asiya wife of Pharaoh, Khadija daughter of Khuwailid, and Fatima the daughter of the Messenger of Allaah." [Bukhari and Muslim]

This hadith is about four women who acquired perfection in faith and character by virtue of their devotion, patience and morality. Their lives are guidance and examples for all believers, especially in times of hardship, difficulty and struggle.

Hazart Khadija-tul-Kubra (May Allah Be Pleased With Her)

The Best Women Of Paradise [2]

In this world, every day thousands to millions of people are being born and others goes to departure for never having chance to come back in our world. When we look behind and read the history then we come to know about few immortal beings, indeed they are alive with us because their high status that they achieved by living life in such a great way, and became examples for us till the world end.

It's urged that we not only remind them but also follow their path and adopt their ways of life so shall we get success like them. Islam is a religion that give women high status. Lets recalls our memories about four greatest women of Paradise.  Indeed these great ladies are true source of  strength and inspiration.

Hazart Anas (May Allah Be Pleased With Him) reports that Prophet Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him) has said: "The best women of mankind are four: Maryam daughter of `Imraan, Asiya wife of Pharaoh, Khadija daughter of Khuwailid, and Fatima the daughter of the Messenger of Allaah." [Bukhari and Muslim]

This hadith is about four women who acquired perfection in faith and character by virtue of their devotion, patience and morality. Their lives are guidance and examples for all believers, especially in times of hardship, difficulty and struggle. 

Lady Maryam-Mary (May Allah Be Pleased With Her) [2]

The Best women Of Paradise [1]

In this world, every day thousands to millions of people are being born and others goes to departure for never having chance to come back in our world. When we look behind and read the history then we come to know about few immortal beings, indeed they are alive with us because their high status that they achieved by living life in such a great way, and became examples for us till the world end.

It's urged that we not only remind them but also follow their path and adopt their ways of life so shall we get success like them. Islam is a religion that give women high status. Lets recalls our memories about four greatest women of Paradise. Indeed these great ladies are true source of  strength and inspiration.

Hazart Anas (May Allah Be Pleased With Him) reports that Prophet Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him) has said: "The best women of mankind are four: Mariam daughter of `Imraan, Asiya wife of Pharaoh, Khadija daughter of Khuwailid, and Fatima the daughter of the Messenger of Allaah." [Bukhari and Muslim]

This hadith is about four women who acquired perfection in faith and character by virtue of their devotion, patience and morality. Their lives are guidance and examples for all believers, especially in times of hardship, difficulty and struggle. 

Lady Asiya (May Allah Be Pleased with her)

Paint Your Life

Be Better Than You Were Yesterday.

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You don't get to choose how you're going to die, or when. You can only decide how you're going to live now.

A Muslim Woman Can Propose To A Muslim Man

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A Muslim woman is allowed to approach a man with a marriage proposal, if she comes to know of a man who has good character, Deen and would be a good husband, she can approach him in an honorable way with a marriage proposal. This may be seen as improper or brazen in some cultures. But that is a cultural attitude, not an Islamic one.

Guard Your Heart Girls

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Heart is so precious and fragile, and yet so complicated, that there are parts and feelings it holds that are specially reserved as a gift for married couples. This results in the need for us to be alert and guarding our hearts at all times; primarily, when it comes to relationships. 

This is especially true for females, who tend to have a God-given desire to be loved, cherished, protected and understood by an earthly, godly man. This is not a bad thing at all, except for when we go seeking it from a bunch of different guys through flirting or relationships, instead of realizing that Allah (God) already fulfills this desire, and only our God-given future husband could help amplify it.

About Genuine Females

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Hey Females listen;  always keep your heels, head, and standards high...

An ideal wife is any woman who has an ideal husband.

A man of quality is not threatened by a woman of equality. 

Friends Till The End

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Friends 'till the end,

That's what we always said,

Even when all hopes were dead.

Friends 'till the end,

We will always be,

Nothing can ever come between you and me.

Hmmm

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Let's Make It A Special Ramadan

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Ramadan is the Islamic month of fasting. Fasting begins at the break of dawn and ends at sunset. During this time, Muslims abstain from eating, drinking, smoking and sex. Actully the idea of fasting is not to starve oneself but it set a different spiritual plane altogether. 

And is intended to teach Muslims about patience, humility, and spirituality. Muslims fast for the sake of Allah (God) and to offer more prayer than usual. 

After Hardship There is Ease

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Thank You Allah, For Giving Us A Lot More Than Our Share

"And O beloved, when My bondsmen ask you about Me, then I am indeed near, accept the call of the caller when he calls upon Me; then they should obey My Commands and believe in Me, so that they may get the way."

 (Surah Al-Baqara : Ayah186)

We ask, He gives.

We cry, He listens.

We call, He runs.

We sin, He forgives.

We repent, He forgives.

We knock, He opens.

We attend, He welcomes.

We nag, He hears.

We request, He accepts.

We questions, He solves.

We plea, He resolves.

We take, He provides.

We insist, He grant.

Everything we do, is about us and everything He does, is about us.

So
"Which of the favours of your Lord can you deny?" (Surah Ar-Rahman : 18)

"And He gave you many things you asked for. And if you count the favours of Allah, you cannot count. No doubt, man is very unjust, un-thankful." (Surah Ibrahim : Ayat 34)

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Allah bestwoned upon us countless blessings. 

If we start writing them all, our life would come to end but Allah’s blessing will never finish.

To give thanks for blessings is itself a blessing, one can never cease to give thanks.

A believer thanks Allah for everything and in every situation.

We And Relationships

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I've noticed in my life that we all want to be loved, understood and cared about. But mostly what we get, instead, is a feeling of being misunderstood, rejected and betrayed.

In society we're taught it's not OK to feel pain or hurt. Men, especially, feel they're not strong if they feel pain or hurt. It's crucial that we allow ourselves to feel those vulnerable feelings, because we can't heal them unless we're willing to feel them.

Miscellaneous

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There are three phases of knowledge in Islam. When a Muslim has a little bit of knowledge, he or she speaks a lot. When a Muslim has increased his or her knowledge, he or she feels humble. When a Muslim has collected an abundance of knowledge, he or she is silent. In Islam, "silence is a mark of intelligence."

Wait Patiently:

"When Allah(God) knows you’re ready for the responsibility of commitment, He’ll reveal the right person under the right circumstances. Wait patiently. Don’t waste your time searching and wishing. Grow and be ready, you’ll see Allah (God) will give you a love story far better than you could ever dream of."

Is Life Just A Lie?

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In life whenever we got cheated unexpectedly by people who are not only around us but also are really very close to us, at those times we feel Life is a lie. We feel crap. It hurts so bad and feels so empty inside.

A guy shared his feelings when he got cheated in love. 

He said: "I have just experienced the worst break up ever and I know how absolutely devastating and heart crunching feel when long distance relationship ended for no reason. I cared about her deeply, I believed that our relationship was passionate and we both love each other. And now how I tell a story of a person, who betrayed me and that same person promise me to be everything in my life. I took my relationship with her as a fairy tale relationship. But now I lost my love my dream my innocent future.

5 Signs Of Weak Imaan (Faith)

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1: Committing sins and not feeling any guilt.

2: Having a hard heart and no desire to read the Quran.

3: Feeling too lazy to do good deeds, e.g. being late for salat.

4: Neglecting the Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him).

5: Having mood swings, for instance being upset about petty things and bothered 

and irritated most of the time.

Getting Married And Our Society

Sorry if any word of mine seems to you objectionable.

Story Of Maya

How To Get A Boy

Hunting Boy

Take Every Step Carefully

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Life is a journey of a thousand miles. It is carried on step by step. If each and every step carefully taken it can lead to ultimate success. The future lies before you, be careful how you tread it, for every step will show.

Step:1 Think carefully be slow and critical thinker.

Step2: Have confidence.

Step3: Be careful what you say it may come back to haunt you, always treat those around you with kindness and respect.

Step 4: Improve your abilities.

Step 5: Work with people who have similar interest and will understand your abilities. Perhaps this is one of the best ways of earning credibility.

Step 6: Be careful who you trust.

Step 7: Just be careful who you let in your life, every part of you is precious and sacred, don't just let everybody into your soul, and take time out to get to know people first.

Step8: Take your time and make sure things are done right.

Step 9: Emphasize quality in all aspects of life.

Step 10: Hold yourself accountable for your actions.

Prophet Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him)

Prophet Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him) proved to master skillful techniques with which he accomplished his goals in delivering the message of Islam in the whole world. 

  The Perfect Man

  The Most Cultured Man

  The Sincere

  The Modest

  The Humble

  The Polite

  The Austere

  The Moderate

  The Gentle

  The Kind

  The Truthful

  The Just

  The Merciful

  The Forgiving

  The Generous

  The Hospitable

  The Charitable

  The Peaceful

  The Friendly

  The Most Persistent Person

  The Contented

  The Most Educated

  The Courageous

  The Most Loved

  The Rational

  The Champion of Equality

  The Most Practical

  The Most Impartial

  The Most Self-Disciplined

  A – non – Racist and World Leader

Leave The Lying To The Liars

Sometimes you are involved in a situation that demands you to lie; it happens when people ask you about their looks or someone ask about the meal that they serve/cook and then you become confused; you don't want to hurt the feelings of someone by telling the difficult truth and also don't like  to speak lie. 

Lying is also part of communication and we tend to lie a lot.

Mostly these may not be big lies, but it's not the matter the size of the lie. Lies are lies; big or small. Making false statements is one of those things that are fundamentally bad and forbidden. Lying is not permissible. Like each long journey starts with a small step as a person becomes a habitual of lying after speaking small lies and after lying too much, they will get used to it, they end up feeling like a liar, these small lies make him so dare, comfortable and careless regarding lying or a wrong-doing.

Many lairs justify their false statements as white lies or call their lies good for themselves or someone else.

When you observe, you will notice that you have to lie in certain circumstances:

1: You lie to protect someone’s feelings, when anyone ask you about their looks, how am I looking in this pants? am I looking fat? and then you have to compliment them without meaning it because  you don't want to hurt their feelings or don't wanna any mess, you only find escape in lying.

2: You speak lie very quickly when it comes to making false excuses.

3: There are fake smiles, only lies are not to deceive, smiles are too misleading.

4: Lying is in jokes too/racial jokes, jokes based on race and nationality are false, like jokes about  Africans,

5: You speak lie when you have to sell something, mostly advertisement based on exaggerations and misleading people and advertising promises too much. There is lying, products are not as perfect and useful as they present their things.

6: We lie confidently while we are bargaining, you wanna to reap benefits from making lies during bargaining.

7: When we admire our friends for gaining their favour/making wrong praise; making false statements like, Wow dear you are looking gorgeous. I don't think it is really you

8: Lying is also present in formal conversations: you always respond, fine, whenever any strangers ask about you, or when you don't want to upset any close one.
9: And while showing gratitude.

White lies are helpful and would not hurt anyone, save relationships, mostly ease hectic situations and also on occasions have good intentions behind, but in spite of all benefits of white lies, these are not totally good. The habit of telling the white lies make a person to speak more and more lies in future and turn him into a liar, then he may find it's easier  the more serious lies and to avoid telling truths. There is such a thin line between innocent/white lies and serious lies; once you cross it, it's difficult to come back.

Many lairs justify their false statements as white lies or call their lies good for themselves or someone else; they find lying as a helping tool to fix issues, to win conflicts and to make their lives go smoothly.

But in fact lying has many negative effects:

Lying destroys the inner peace of liars, feelings of guilt make them depressed, they feel fear of being caught and the burden of remembering of their lies. Lying not only destroy trust, but also liars have to lose someone they love, lying  push the close ones away  and then relationship fails. Lies make easy matters complicated. And the biggest disadvantage of lying is for liar that he lost his personality image and respect in society.