Till Death Do Us Part

Marriage is a permanent commitment between a man and a woman; a single piece of marriage paper unite them legally, socially, economically, and emotionally. It is a kind of commitment that tie a couple for the rest of their lives. Otherwise a lack of commitment to the marriage become the reason for separation/divorce. In fact when your futures are tied together, you become more committed to your marriage, give up your choices, and act carefully.

Undeniably, marriage is hard and life after marriage may not prove easygoing as we expect or wish; still you can earn the benefits of it by adjustment, compromise and sacrifice; indeed friendship, respect and understanding are the basics of marriage. For keeping your marriage healthy, happy and strong, you have to work on it everyday.

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Always remember that your relationship is more important and stronger than your problem. Conflicts are not real problem but how you resolve an issue it matters. Handle every situation with grace; don't let your ego get in the way. It doesn't matter if you both have different attitude towards life, an effort from both end can make the marriage successful. Your main goal is to have a happy marriage, for this you have to work on it constantly.
You can't write any script for your marriage, the one thing you need to do is to understand many things about your marriage. Then define your own marriage and make up your own rules to  handle any type of situation.

Here Are Few Rules that Happy Couples Follow:
1: Speak truth, telling lies may weaken your relationship.
2: Always being honest about everything is the most important rule.
3: Never cheat on your partner.
4: Give importance to your spouse and never stop doing little things.
5: In anger and always have patience.
6: Speak gently and be kind towards your partner.
7: Don't criticise all the time.
8: Never start blame game, specially during fights.
9: Forgive one another and forget.
10: Become a better listener, try to understand point of view of each other.
11: Don't bring past conflict, leave past in past, live in present.
12: Have admiration for each other and give compliments.
13: Admit your mistakes and apologise.
14; Support and respect the needs of each other.
15: Argue but do not fight.
16: Focus on the good things about your partner, never look for their wrong doings.
17: Don't put the burden of unrealistic expectations on one another.
18: Be well mannered to your partner. Good manners can make your married life pleasant.
19: Never take your partner for granted, appreciate one another.
20: Always express your feeling to your partner so they feel special.

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